Sunday, May 11, 2014

#ineedmore -- Met Gala Edition

Here are my favorite dresses from the Met Gala on Monday, May 5, 2014.  Pictures are taken from Style Magazine website.

Blake Lively in Gucci Premiere



Jessica Alba in Diane von Furstenberg


Karolina Kurkova in Marchesa


Kate Mara in Valentino


Marion Cotillard in Dior Haute Couture


Michelle Williams in Louis Vuitton


Reese Witherspoon in Stella McCartney


Rosie Huntington-Whiteley in Balmain

Thursday, May 8, 2014

#ineedmore


1. Lois Long
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Before we had Carrie Bradshaw, The New Yorker had Lois Long aka "Lipstick".  Hired at the age of 23, Lois Long brought insight to the New Woman of the mid 1920's.  Lipstick would spend her nights drinking, dancing and dining at speakeasy's in New York City.  She would stay out all hours of the night, and then go into the office in the mornings, still drunk, and write her columns.  Lois Long allowed people to see what the new "normal" was for the new, middle-class woman who embodied the flapper's spirit and style.  (Information taken from Flapper: A Madcap Story of Sex, Style, Celebrity, and the Women Who Made America Modern by Joshua Zeitz)



2. Neil Patrick Harris as Hedwig
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Move over Barney Stinson, Neil Patrick Harris' best role yet is playing Hedwig in "Hedwig and the Angry Inch".  NPH was born for this play.  I saw it Saturday night, and could not believe how beautiful, magical, loving, inspiring this show was.  Hedwig is performed as a conversation between her and the audience.  There is a band onstage to support her, and interacts throughout the show.  Hedwig is the story for a man who became transgender to marry another man during the late 1980's in East Germany.  We go through the ups and downs that Hedwig experienced, singing, laughing and crying with her.  I highly recommend everyone see this play before it closes!










3. I'm Addicted -- Essie

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4. F. Scott Fitzgerald
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At the moment, I am reading Flapper: A Madcap Story of Sex, Style, Celebrity, and the Women Who Made America Modern and Z: A Novel of Zelda Fitzgerald.  Both books speak about F. Scott Fitzgerald, and I have fallen in love.   I know he spent way too much money that he didn't have, but the man sure knew how to party.  Fitzgerald would go out every night, partying with the flappers, hanging out with other writer friends, and then turn around and write brilliant novels!  And according to both books, Fitzgerald was very persistent with Zelda.  Who doesn't want that? 







5. Emma Stone on Jimmy Fallon


Sunday, April 27, 2014

#ineedmore


  1. The Night Circus

I just reread The Night Circus for the third time.  Every time I read this book, I fall more and more in love with the characters, and Le Cirque Des Reves.  The circus suddenly arrives with no warning, and is only open from sunset to sunrise.  The reader is able to experience the circus through the eyes of visitors, workers, and the two people who run the circus-- Marco and Celia.  We learn that the circus is the host of a competition between Marco and Celia, and by the end, only one of them will be left standing.  But what happens if they try to work together instead of against each other?



2. Face Time


Recently a friend and I have been having "Face Time Dates".  It's so much easier than talking on the phone. I pay attention to my friends a lot better (since they would know if I was multi-tasking).  It's also fun to see their expressions when talking about certain topics. 



3. Five Year Engagement- Cookie Monster and Elmo Scene




4. Sara Bareilles- "I Choose You"







5. Parenthood


It has been already been a week since the season finale of "Parenthood", and I am still not over the episode.  It was jam packed with love, happiness, and drama.  My week is not complete without hanging out with the Braverman clan.  Each character is so relatable, and the show reminds me to love the life I have, and to get excited for the life that I will have in future.  

Friday, November 15, 2013

you want me to cook!?

Carrie Bradshaw had the right idea: the kitchen should be used for storing clothes, shoes and handbags, not for cooking.  That's why we have phones.  Tonight I tried to attempt 2 goals.  The first was to push myself to do something outside of my comfort zone.  The other goal was to learn how to cook.  I succeeded in going outside of my comfort zone, however my cooking skills might have gotten worse, rather than improving.  

I've seen people make chicken cutlets a million times.  Chicken, eggs, and breadcrumbs.  Easier said than done.  I'm not sure where I went wrong--probably when I decided that it would be a good idea to cook alone.  I cleaned the chicken, put oil in the pan, and dipped the chicken into the correct flavoring.  And then I put it in the pan.  Big mistake.  The oil went flying out, stinging me all over my arms.  Then I smelled the burning.  The bottom of the chicken was starting to burn, and as I went to flip it over, the oil kept jumping onto my skin again.  My first two pieces of chicken were un-edible.  I threw those pieces away, and decided to try again.  I cut my chicken in half to make it thinner, and then went through the whole process again.  This time the chicken cooked all the way through, and didn't burn as much.  I considered that a success, until I sat down to eat.  The chicken had no taste, and the breadcrumb part kept falling off.  

People thought I never learned how to cook because I wasn't interested.  That's not true at all.  I am terrified of raw meat.  Senior year of high school we took a cooking class.  One day we had to make Sloppy Joe's.  Did you know that to make Sloppy Joe's you need to stick your hand into the raw meat and squish it up?  I put on my rubber gloves, stuck my hands into the meat, squeezed and then screamed.  It was the most disgusting feeling ever.  From that day on I refused to touch raw meat--packaged or not.  

But now I am 26 years old, and I thought brave enough to try and cook chicken.  Going outside of my comfort zone? Check!  And it was exhilarating.  I'm proud that I can finally say that I've attempted to cook raw meat.  Learn how to cook?  Epic failure.  Not sure what I did wrong, but it didn't taste right.  I'm sending out a public warning now, if I cook it, don't eat it.  

Sunday, October 13, 2013

(101/1001)


Last week a sorority sister told me about a challenge she gave herself almost three years ago: 101 goals to complete in 1001 days.  I was immediately fascinated by this idea and started writing down my own goals.  Once I had a few of my own, I went onto my friends blog (http://lostdrgnfly.wordpress.com/101in1001/) and looked through her goals.  I will admit I stole some of her ideas.  Now that I had my 101 goals, I decided to look up the date in 1001 days.  July 10, 2016.  MAJOR PANIC ATTACK!!!  In 1001 days I will be 29 years and 7 days old.  It's not that I am scared of getting older, it's just the idea that so much is going to be different in 1001 days.  Who knows where I am going to be physically and mentally in my life.  I tossed and turned all night thinking I needed more life changing goals.  Thankfully when I woke up the next morning relaxed and confident with what I wrote.  On July 10, 2016, I will (hopefully) have a better grip on life, of who I am and what my passions are.  I've reread my list dozens of times getting excited to attempt to complete each goal.  I am also excited about the stories I will have.  Here is to the next 1001 days:  I hope every single day is filled with excitement, laughter, love and courage to be the person I am going to be in 1001 days.

For inner peace:
  1. Take a week off from Facebook (0/7)
  2. Write a letter to myself on day one that I will read on day 1001
  3. Watch a sunrise (0/1)
  4. Identify 25 things that I like about myself (0/25)
  5. Write down 5 good things a day for a month (0/31)
  6. Observe Shabbat once every three months (0/10)
  7. Blog twice a month (0/66)
  8. Put my clothes away immediately after wearing/washing every day for a month (0/31)
  9. Clean out my car once per week (0/143) 

For my body:
  1. Get a minimum of 8 hours of sleep per night 2 weeks in a row (0/14)
  2. Wear makeup every day for a week (0/7)
  3. Wear jewelry every day for a week (0/7)
  4. Go on a bike ride (on my own bike) 
  5. Go to a yoga retreat
  6. Go to the gym at least 3 days a week for 2 months (0/24)
  7. Go running 3 times a week for a month (0/12)
  8. Try a spinning class (0/1)

For my entertainment:
  1. Go on a hot air balloon ride
  2. Go skydiving
  3. Build a sand castle
  4. Build a snowman
  5. Go to 25 concerts (0/25)
  6. Watch 25 new movies that are recommended to me (0/25)
  7. Go to the opera 
  8. Go to a psychic
  9. Find one new town to explore every month (0/33)
  10. Host 3 dinner parties (0/3)
  11. Visit a museum once a month (0/33)

For my travel obsession:
  1. Go to Disney World
  2. Go on an African Safari 
  3. Attend the 2015 World Fair in Milan
  4. Revisit Costa Rica
  5. Take a road trip somewhere
  6. Visit one new state a year (0/3)

For my inner explorer:
  1. Spend a day at the beach
  2. Learn Hebrew
  3. Go on a weekend hiking trip
  4. Scrapbook my travel experiences 
  5. Attend one sorority alumnae event per month (0/16)
  6. Visit at least one friend in a different state every six months (0/6)

For the left side of my brain:
  1. Learn to drive a standard car
  2. Sign up for different classes
  3. Complete 1000 piece puzzles every three months (0/10)
  4. Complete a book of crossword puzzles
  5. Pick one persons blog and keep up with it

For the right side of my brain:
  1. Participate in NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month)
  2. Read for 30 minutes a day everyday for a month (0/31)
  3. Read 25 books that friends recommend (0/25)
  4. Scrapbook my college experiences 
  5. Scrapbook my post-college experiences 
  6. Take an art class
  7. Sign up for a dance class
  8. Take a photography class
  9. Take a photo of the same places every month for one year (0/12)
  10. Take one photo and share it online everyday for a month (0/31)

For my future:
  1. Join dictionary.com's word a day mailing list to increase vocabulary
  2. Write down everything I spend money on for 1 month, then make cut backs.
  3. No shopping for one month
  4. Push myself to do something outside of my "comfort zone" once a month (0/33)
  5. Pick a stock and invest in it
  6. Live in another country for at least 6 months

For strangers:
  1. For every goal I don't complete, donate $1 to charity
  2. Host at least one charity event each month to raise money for the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer (0/33)
  3. Volunteer or do charity work at least once a month (0/33)
  4. Start a charity organization
  5. Give a compliment to at least 3 strangers every day for a month (0/33)
  6. Do something for a stranger at least once a week (0/143)
  7. Join the postcrossing.com project and send at least 10 postcards (0/10)

For my tummy:
  1. Try 101 new recipes (0/101)
  2. Learn how to cook (including meat/chicken/fish)
  3. Try 1 new baking recipe every other month (0/16)
  4. Go to the farmers market
  5. Try 25 new wines and rate them (0/25)
  6. Try 25 new beers and rate them (0/25)
  7. Learn to grill meat
  8. Eat fruit every day for a week (0/7)
  9. Attend a food festival 
  10. Learn how to make sushi
  11. Host or join a cooking club
  12. Replace one meal a day with a salad for a month (0/31)
  13. Take cooking classes
  14. Eat breakfast every morning for one week straight (0/7)
  15. Cook dinner once per week (0/143)

For my passion:
  1. Create a Vision Board
  2. Get certified as a travel agent
  3. Get a job as a travel agent
  4. Start my website
  5. Blog about the people and places I love
  6. Take journalism/writing classes
  7. Find indie theaters in NYC and share them with friends
  8. Go through all my stuff, and get rid of what I don't need.

For those I love:
  1. Send birthday cards in the mail to 15 people (0/15)
  2. Give 5 "I saw this and thought of you" gifts (0/5)
  3. Send holiday cards
  4. Go on a picnic
  5. Send out thank-you notes in a timely fashion
  6. Call one friend once a week via telephone or Skype (0/143)
  7. Reconnect with 10 friends that I haven't spoken to in a long time (0/10)
  8. Donate to 10 friends' charity walks
  9. Inspire one friend a month to try something new (0/33)
  10. Host a holiday meal (0/1)

Monday, March 11, 2013

Happy Spring =)

We just changed the clocks, and spring is only days away.  Time Out New York has put together their list of 101 things to do in spring.  Here are the few things that I have picked out.  For the complete list, visit: http://www.timeout.com/newyork/things-to-do/101-things-to-do-in-the-spring-in-new-york-city-2013.

Chow down at Smorgasburg

Feeling hungry?  On Saturdays you can visit Williamsburg's East River State Part and on Sunday Brooklyn Bridge Park (at Tobacco Warehouse) for different food stations.  Vendors come from all over to offer fresh farm foods.  There is also a bar within the market.  In May or June they will be expanding their beer selections.  For more info visit: smorgasburg.com

Brooklyn Bridge Park is finally up and running!  For the past few years I have walked over the Brooklyn Bridge seeing the empty land, wondering when they will do something with it.  Now there are wooden tables and 22 barbecue grils (no permits needed!).  There are also two tetherball poles.  So put on a bikini, grab a beach towel. food and something to hide your alcohol in!  It's time to tan while looking at the magnificent view of NYC.  

Interested in cocktails?  May 17- May 21 is the Manhattan Cocktail Classic.  The five days are filled with lectures, conferences, parties and bar crawls.  Tickets for events go on sale on March 15 at noon, so make sure to look at the schedule and see what you want to do!  Visit manhattancocktailclassic.com.  

Last year it was Alexander McQueen, this year it is PUNK.  The exhibit will examine rebellion meeting high fashion.  There will be about 100 designs on display, including artifacts from punk-rock scenes.  The exhibit will have pieces by more than 30 fashion designers, including John Galliano, Helmut Lang, and Gianni Versace.  Make sure to get to the Metropolitan Museum of Art between May 9-August 11.  

No need to go to Washington DC to see the cherry blossoms.  Head to the Brooklyn Botanic Garden to see their 220 cherry trees.  The Garden offers tours on Wednesday at 1pm and Saturdays at 11am, or explore on your own!  Head over between March 20-April 20. 

Celebrate Grand Central's Centennial
Happy 100th birthday Grand Central!!!  At 11am and 2 pm from March 25-31, Heard-NY will be performing throughout the terminal.  There will be 60 dancers from the Ailey School dressed in tandem horse costumes.  They will sporadically come together to perform choreographed pieces accompanied by live harpists.  

Make a day of it in Beacon
Hop onto Metro-North and head to Beacon, New York--in Hudson Valley.  Take a day trip and start at Dia:Beacon.  It is a contemporary-modern art gallery built inside a former Nabisco factory.  You can also awlk along the river and find a restuarant.  Before heading back to the city, make sure you visit Hop- a high-class beer spot.  It has over 150 craft beers, and more on tap! 


See things another way at "Topsy-Turvy: A Camera Obscura Installation"

The new Madison Square Park public art is in!  From now until April 6 head into the darkened room and you will see the surrounding trees and building projected upside down.  


Go wild at Pillow Fight NYC

Saturday April 6 is New York City's annual pillow fight.  The location is still to be announced, but get your friends ready!!  Also, any pillows that survive the fight will be donated to homeless shelters.  Please do not bring feather-and down-stuffed pillows just to keep the mess to a minimum.  

Record Store Day
This year will be the sixth annual celebration of independent music shops.  On April 20 more than 25 vinyl stores across the city will be participating.  Check recordstoreday.com for info on specials and events.

I can't skate, but I sure do love watching those who can.  Starting in April, on Saturdays and Sundays you can find the Central Park Dance Skaters Association in the heart of the park.  Bring your own skates, or rent them (two hours- $15, four hours- $20, all day- $25).  There will be one section for those not-so-good skaters, and another section for people who actually know how to skate.  There will also be a DJ there.  


Give the gift of a good read for World Book Night

Last year, the city and the rest of the U.S. and U.K. celebrated World Book Night.  Volunteers signed up to hand out donated special editions of beloved novels to strangers who might not have access to literature.  This year on April 23, promote literacy by targeting a group of needy readers and sharing some great novels.  Visit worldbooknight.org to sign up.

Get a sneak peek at future movie hits at the Tribeca Film Festival

Who doesn't love to see movies before they are out in theaters?  This year is the 11th anniversary of the Tribeca Film Festival in NY.  Tickets go on sale April 15 for the general public.  Make sure to check out the website and see what's playing!   Visit: tribecafilm.com/festival for details.

Saturday, December 29, 2012

Feeling Lucky in Unlucky '13

I am really excited to be ringing in 2013 in just 2 days.  2012 was an interesting year for me.  I was working in a job that was making me miserable; I went on more trips in twelve months than I could ever imagine; went to more concerts than I have in my entire life; met a bunch of celebrities; and I made some of the best friends a girl could ask for.  This past year really opened up my eyes to what is right in front of me.  


A few weeks ago I saw this picture on Facebook: I absolutely love the idea of having an empty jar and filling it with notes about good things that happen. I am excited to try it out in a few days.  However, I am going to change the rules a little bit.  I am not going to put a little note in the jar when only something good happens, I am going to write a little note every day.  This way I will force myself to come up with something, anything, that put a smile on my face.  it could be something funny that the girls I babysit say; a show that made me really happy; a text message from a friend that really made me LOL for a long time.  At night I might be able to fall asleep easier if I think about the good things that happened during the day, rather than worrying about what needs to get done the next day.  


My jar will be public on Facebook.  If you want to keep track of my jar, click here and "Like" my page.  You can also leave posts about what happened to you that made your day so awesome!  I love hearing stories from anyone and everyone!  


My 2012 Jar (starting from January):
  • I was caught while doing trapeze. (January)
  • I went to visit a best friend in Chicago (February)
  • Had a really awesome time celebrating St. Patrick's day (March)
  • Went to Costa Rica, and had the trip of a life-time (April)
  • Helped work the Met Ball.  Went to Nashville and fell in love with country music, cowboy boots and cowgirl hats (May)
  • Went to Vegas for a bachelorette party.  Celebrated a bridal shower for an amazing friend.  Finished teaching. (June)
  • Saw movies in Bryant Park.  Celebrated my 25th birthday. Celebrated my sister/cousin's wedding.  (July)
  • Celebrated the wedding of two very good friends. (August)
  • Started a new season of kickball, and made great friends.  (September)
  • Went pumpkin picking.  Survived Sandy.  (October)
  • Visited Jeremy in Spain and went to Amsterdam.  (November)
  • Jeremy came home from Spain.  Celebrated SantaCon.  Reconnected with friend's I haven't spoken to in a long time.  (December)


Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Winter Fun!

Please don't hate me for what I'm about to say: I dislike the Time Out New York magazines.  There is just too much information and writing in each weeks' edition.  I never know where to start.  However, I do love the emails that TONY sends me.  They are full of information, and everything is easier to find.  Below is my winter bucket list thanks to Time Out New York.  For the full list, click here.  

Head to Chinatown for their New Year- On Feb. 12 join up to 200,000 people come together to celebrate the Chinese Lunar New Year Firecracker Ceremony.  They will be ringing in the year of the Snake.  They will have dancing troupes and Pan-Asian food booths.  Also, the firecrackers are supposed to drive away evil spirits, which we all need!


Freeze Tag on Wall Street- Every weekend I play kickball, so it makes sense that I would want to join in on a really big game of freeze tag.  On Sunday, January 22 there is a large game of freeze tag down in Wall Street.  Meet at Wall Street at Broad Street for the fun!  If interested, send me a message, and I will let you know about what time it starts!

Light Show in Madison Square Park- This winter, until Feb. 1, the art piece called "Buckyball" is being showcased in Madison Square Park.  It is a pair of illuminated geodesic spheres, one inside the other.  The sculpture is 20 feet in diameter and composed of multicolored LED tubes that put on a changing light show.  Sit back in the wooden zero-gravity chairs surrounding the sculpture.  

Pop Art Scavenger Hunt on the High Line- The High Line has joined with the Whitney Museum to celebrate the artwork of Richard Artschwager.  Until Feb. 3 the High Line, down by the Gansevoort, has 9 pill-shaped works along and around the park.  The artist began putting up his artwork in the late '60s, hoping to draw the viewers attention to unnoticed spaces.

Flavored Cocoa's at City Bakery's Hot Chocolate Festival- Anyone else a really big fan of hot chocolate?  Especially with whipped cream on top?  During the month of February at City Bakery (3 W. 18th Street btwn Fifth and Sixth) the owner Maury Rubin will serve a different flavor of cocoa every day of the month.  Click here to see their flavors from February 2012.   Check back after January 18 for the 2013 list!  Also on January 31, they will be having an opening-night party.  

Restaurant Week- From January 14 to February 8, New York City will be hosting Restaurant week.  Dinners are $38 and lunches are $25.  Each person gets an appetizer, main course and dessert.  Check online after the new years to see what restaurants will be participating, or visit nycgo.com/restaurantweek to sign up for a notification when the list is posted.  Hope you all have great meals!


Fondue Night at Trestle on Tenth- For you cheese enthusiasts, from Dec. 30-Feb. 24, on Sundays, you can pay $25 per person and have a fondue night.  Order Emmentaler, Gruyere and Vacherin cheeses with a crusty baguette and some dried meat and steamed potatoes for dipping.  Perfect girls night out in the middle of winter!  Trestle on Tenth is located at 242 Tenth Ave at 24th Street.


Polar Bear Dip at Coney Island- Are you brave enough for the Polar Bear dip in Coney Island?  I am not, but I have always been fascinated by the people who are able to jump into that freezing cold water!  On Jan. 3 at Coney Island Beach, thousands of people will be participating in the dip.  You can go and cheer those brave people on.  If you do not have time, you can donate money for Camp Sunshine, a charity that supports children with life-threatening illnesses and their families.  Visit http://www.crowdrise.com/coneyislandpolardip to donate.  You can donate in general, or look for a fun team name, and donate to them! Oh, and if you do participate, please take pictures!!!

Vintage Photos of NYC Landmarks- I really love history, and I really love New York City.  The New York Historical Society and the Landmarks Preservation Commission are exhibiting 90 pictures of the city's most impressive edifices and explains how they fit into the larger story of New York.  Make sure to go before Sun. Feb. 17 located at 170 Central Park West between 76th and 77th Streets. 

Hauser & Wirth Art Gallery- Hauser & Worth are opening a new art gallery at 511 W. 18th Street between 10th and 11th Streets.  The new gallery now takes up a 24,700-square-foot-space.  The artwork is very unique, and will soon be a must-visit stop for everyone.  The gallery opens Jan. 25.  

No Pants Subway Ride- On Sunday, January 13, the twelfth annual No Pants Subway Ride will happen.  It started out as a playful prank, and just continued as a tradition.  It will be fun to see which guys are "manly" enough to ride the subway with no pants on!

Seal Spotting- Did you know there are seals in New York?!  I did NOT!  Apparently from December to March the seals swim their way down from Maine to spend the winter in "warmer" waters.  They hang out by local beaches such as Orchard Beach in the Bronx, during low tide.  

"Inventing Abstraction 1910-1925"- The MoMA is hosting an exhibit about the development of abstract art.  The exhibit goes until Monday April 15.  If you don't want to pay all the money to get in, visit on Friday evenings after 4 pm to get in for free.  But get there early, lines tend to be long!

Chili Fest-Those of you who enjoy Chili will be happy to know that on Jan. 20 a chili fest will be held at Chelsea Market.  Competitors from over 20 local restaurants will battle each other to serve the perfect meat-based chili.  They will also be serving Sam Adams beers and live country music.  Times have not been announced yet.

Gingerbread Extravaganza- Visit Le Parker Meridien for their annual display of Gingerbread houses.  Local bakeries and restaurants designed gingerbread houses to benefit City Harvest.   Stop by the concierge desk to buy a $1 ballot and you can cast a vote for your favorite house.  Make sure to stop by before January 3!

Beer Week- I am pretty excited to learn about beer week.  This year holds the fifth annual beer celebration.  Beer week goes from Feb 22 to March 3rd.  There will be over 300 events in 150 venues.  Events should be announced soon, so check at nycbrewersguild.com  to stay up to date!

Central Park Zoo- When was the last time you went to the Central Park Zoo (and seeing Madagascar does not count!)?  During the winter, the Central Park Zoo has a Tropic Zone.  The tropic zone is a balmy, rainforest-like environment.  There is a raised platform that you can walk on and look down at the floor-dwelling mammals like deer, and look up to see their tropical bird collection.  There are also tamandua and sloths hiding in the trees.

First Time Jokes- Each year in early January, John F. O'Donnell invites his favorite comics to show of their first new joke of the year.  On Friday. Jan. 4 you can join in the laughs (or lack there of) at The Bell House.  Go to http://www.timeout.com/newyork/comedy/50-first-jokes to get tickets in advance.  

Thursday, November 22, 2012

Truly Thankful

Thanksgiving, as well as many other holidays, is a time to reflect on your life, and appreciate all that you have.  This is something that is usually very hard for us to do.  Many have grown up in houses with loving parents  siblings and pets.  A lot of you have wonderful significant others.  We have good jobs.  We have never been in need anything like food, shelter or clothing.  These are all things that we have taken for granted while growing up.  In the aftermath of Sandy it is much easier to be appreciative and thankful for everything that we have.

When Sandy hit, my house lost power for 7 days.  I am so thankful that we only lost power.  I couldn't believe people were on Facebook complaining that they did not have electricity, internet, or cable when there were, and still are, so many people that have lost their houses and family members.  Hurricane Sandy put a lot of things in perspective for me.  Not going to lie, it was difficult living in a house with no lights or heat.  I was constantly worrying about my dog becoming too cold, or someone breaking into my house because it was so dark.  All of our food spoiled, and we couldn't even go out and buy more because there was no where to store it.  I wasn't able to do laundry.  I couldn't figure out outfits because it was too dark to see in my closet.  I had to throw on layers when I went to sleep in order to stop shivering.  Thankfully I had friends who did not lose power, and invited me over to recharge (mentally and electronically), eat, stay warm.  I am very happy to have you ladies in my life.

But I only had to live this way for 7 days.  There are so many people in America who live worse than this every single day of the year.  I find it very interesting how after a big natural disaster, people come together and help one another.  So many donated food, clothing, blankets and money to those who have lost things during Sandy, but once the hype calms down, people aren't as generous.  

One of my new years resolutions for 2013 will be to volunteer at least one day a month.  A program called "New York Cares" (http://www.newyorkcares.org/volunteer/volunteer_opportunities/) has a lot of different options to help those in need.  I am eager to get started, and would love friends to participate with me.  Please let me know if you are interested!

By the way, in case you were wondering, here is what I am thankful for this year: mom.  dad.  jeremy.  pudge.  having a house.  heat.  a laundry machine.  a refrigerator and freezer.  awesome friends who are always there for me.  electricity.  my iphone.  my computer.  memories.  a job I enjoy.  my TV & DVR.  freedom.  always having food in my kitchen.  all my readers.  my extended family.  books.  my parents jobs.  a full closet.  traveling.  happiness.  

Sunday, November 11, 2012

Mi corazón está en Barcelona

Today totally made up for sleeping in yesterday, but I´m pretty sure my family doesn´t love me too much at the moment. Woke everyone up around 8:30-9, saying we had to leave by 9:30. Since not everyone was ready by then, Jeremy and I left on our own. We picked up the tickets for La Sagrada Familia, walked over, went to a souvenir shop and had cappuccino. At 11 we headed over to the church and went inside. This church is like NOTHING I have ever seen before.
 
This is what the ceiling of the church looks like (taken from Wikipedia, my pictures will come soon)
 
 
Seeing this as you first walk in is breath-taking. The first thoughts that come to your mind are: OMG how is this possible, this is one of the most beautiful churches ever, and how did they build this in such early years?
 
There is a lot of information connected with the church, but here are the parts I find most interesting. Construction of the Sagrada Familia began in 1882, and they are still not completely done with it. A year after construction began the artist Gaudi became involved. He included his architectural and engineering style. Gaudi continued working until his death in 1926. Construction was halted during the Spanish Civil war, and resumed in the 1950s. There are four spires, one on each corner. The highest spire is 560 feet tall, making the Sagrada Familia the tallest church in the world. However, as tall as it is, the spire is not as tall as Monjuic since Gaudi did not want to outdo something that G-d made Himself. The design of the church is supposed to portray a forest. Some of the stained glass windows are a flower shape. The second tier, for the singers, can hold 1,00 people alone. They are hoping that the church will be done by the 100th anniversary of Gaudi´s death.
 
Like I said yesterday, we ordered our tickets to visit the church and tower yesterday online. We were able to pick them up from a local bank, or you can swipe your credit card right at the church, and they will give you the tickets. I highly suggest pre-ordering tickets wherever you go to eliminate waiting time. We entered the church at 11, and had to wait until 11:15 to join the line to visit one of the towers. I kid you not, the line was over an hour long! We had to wait for the elevator (which only held 5 people plus the elevator operator at once). I was extremely antsy since I wanted to do so much that day. We finally got up to the top of Torre Naixement (nativity). This tower faced the water, and had a pretty great view. We were able to see the city and ocean. It was an awesome experience, but I would not recommend people going up to the top of the towers. The wait was very long, and the view at the top of Montjuic is way better! Plus so many churches out here have bell towers that you can visit, so you will be able to walk up the 400+ winding stairs. Stick with just the church. Also, below the church is a museum of the church´s construction. I walked through quickly, but it looked pretty interesting, and it was pretty big.
 
After Sagrada Familia we picked up lunch and hopped in a cab to go to Parc Guell. Since we took a cab, we didn´t have to walk up the steep hill with all the stairs and escalators, but we did go in through the exit, so I felt like I was missing a lot of the park. We had lunch on some benches, and then Jeremy and I took pictures near the lizard. Jeremy has been doing the Tim Tebow all over Europe, so we decided to take a picture of us posing with the lizard. Pictures are pretty cute!
 
We walked through the park, admiring the artwork and view of the city. We we felt like we had enough of Park Guell (which I´m not sure is possible) we headed towards Montjuic. The views are unbelievable. You can see the whole city from the castle at the top.  Everyone was impressed with the view.  The only problem was it was bit chilly.
 
Once we were done with Montjuic we came back to the hotel for a little siesta.  Many places are closed here on Sundays, but we were able to make reservations at this amazing restaurant called Bar Mut.  It is all tapas, and their menu is constantly changing depending on what is fresh that day.  Apparently Anne Hathaway ate there recently!  I highly suggest people try it out.  They also have a night club upstairs every night except Sundays.  Apparently it gets very packed so you need to make reservations. 
 
I can´t believe we leave Barcelona tomorrow morning and head to Seville.  I am completely in love with this city, and cannot wait to return.  Next time I come back, I will make sure it is late spring or early summer.  It was a little chilly this time around, making it somewhat difficult to stay outside most of the day.  The sun also sets much earlier, cutting down half the day.  There are also so many more museums and attractions that I want to visit.  Who is ready to travel with me this summer?!
 

Saturday, November 10, 2012

Barcelona dia 2

¡Buenos Noches!

Today was a somewhat stressful day.  Jeremy and I woke up around 11, having no idea what time it was.  We were expecting to be woken up early, but were not.  We rushed to get ready (and I ordered my iPhone 5), and managed to leave the hotel around 12.  A little to late for my liking.  

We walked down to the Gothic area of Barcelona.  It was a nice walk, and the area was great.  There are a lot of small, winding streets filled with stores.  We passed a big Cathedral and tried to go inside, but they closed right as we arrived.  Instead, we continued to walk around and found a music hall.  We wanted to go inside, but they only allow people to take tours.  They have a restaurant area and it was decorated very ornately.  There was a lot of stained glass, and the large polls had flowers going around the top, near the ceiling.  The ceiling also had a nice crisscross pattern.  We all split up for a bit to wander around, and I spotted a man carrying a pug inside a bag.  The pug was so cute!!  She was 13 months old, and weighed 8-9 kilos, or about 20 pounds.  He said that they had been walking for a few hours and she got tired.  We were able to pet her, and fell in love.  Wishing Pudge was here with us!

After we found the music hall, we started walking towards the Mercat de la Boqueria, or the market.  This market is amazing!!  There are probably 50 stands crowded in a square.  The stands offer meat, fruit (and juices), candy, nuts, cheeses.  It was so overwhelming how much was there!  Jeremy had a coconut, banana, kiwi juice, and I had a raspberry juice.  They were both delicious.  Since the places that had counters and chairs to eat at were full, we found a restaurant on the edge and ate there.  We ordered so much food: tuna carpacio, paella, cheese, mussels, and I´m pretty sure I am missing a few other things.  Everything was so good, and it was relaxing lunch.

When we were finished, we walked back towards the old city and went to the Picasso museum.  There are so many pieces of artwork in that museum!  It´s insane how much Picasso did in his lifetime.  The museum in Barcelona focuses on his early life, so we saw paintings and drawings from when he was in his pre-teens until he was in his mid-to-late twenties.  They had pieces from his blue period, as well as ceramic pieces that he made.  Usually when I think of Picasso, I think of those crazy paintings that make little to no sense.  These were not like that.  Most were portraits, and some were landscapes.  It was very easy to read the artwork.  The museum did not have small descriptions next to each piece of work, and Jeremy said that is because Picasso wants people to think.  Glad he is keeping our brains sharp!

Leaving the museum we headed towards the fountains at monjuic.  Robin and I were here, and I fell in love with the whole place.  Every night except Sunday, the park puts on a fountain show.  It is definitely not as good as the ones in Atlantic City, but they are pretty cool.  Last time the fountain show used different colors, like red, orange, yellow.  But this time it was all in red.  They made an announcement at the beginning that they were trying to raise money/awareness for blood banks.  The music for the show we saw was old Hollywood.  They had a Louis Armstrong song, the theme to the Odd Couple, L-O-V-E, etc.  Of course the music for the show after, when we were leaving, was music that Jeremy and I enjoyed.  They had Destiny´s Child and other music like that.  

The restaurant was near the montjuic, and we only got a little lost finding it.  The restaurant was called Rias de Galicia.  Apparently the downstairs section has been around for almost 26 years, and the second floor just opened up 2 months ago.  The first floor is typical food in Barcelona.  The section where we ate, upstairs, was different, more like sushi.  The menu was split into two sections: before man had fire, and after man had fire.  We order a mix of raw food (tuna and salmon) as well as cooked food (beef, shrimp, crab).  The fish was probably the best, most fresh fish we have ever had.  My mom said that she could have lived on that salmon, and I whole-heartily agree. 

Now it is after mid-night and Jeremy and I are catching up on facebook/emails.  We were debating going to a discoteca but they are pretty far from the hotel, and we have a busy day tomorrow.  Instead I think we are just going to grab some drinks and hangout!  Adios amigos!


Friday, November 9, 2012

Back to Barcelona

Last time I was in Barcelona was summer 2011, after graduating from Montclair State.   Robin and I backpacked around Spain and Italy, staying in hostels.  This time around is a little different.  I am traveling with family, so everything is a lot more fancy. 
 
We arrived this morning at around 9:20 AM, and went through customs pretty quickly.  We didn´t have to fill out any paperwork which was really nice.  The airport in Barcelona is beautiful, a lot of glass windows, very modern.  Jeremy met us at customs and it was great to see him!  He now dresses very fancy, in nice pants and top and a scarf!!  I think more American men need to head over here and learn how to dress.
 
We hopped in a cab and came to the hotel to drop our bags and change.  The game plan we decided on was to visit Sagrada Familia (church).  Robin and I visited the church last time, but we went at night.  Seeing it during the day was just as breath-taking.  The church is huge, and you can´t stop looking at it.  For the past few years they have been working on the outside, cleaning the soot off.  Once side is completely white, and the other side black.  It was crazy to see the difference.  We didn´t go inside today since the line to buy tickets was about two hours.  However, while looking at the church, we started talking to another couple.  They said that you can buy tickets online, and pick them up at an ATM at la Caixa bank.   All you need to do is enter the credit card you used, and select pick up tickets.  Brilliant idea Barcelona! 
 
Since we decided to skip the church today, we wanted to walk around the whole thing and see the back.  According to a guide (that we overheard) the back of the church represents Jesus´ birth, and the front of the church represents his crucifixion.  Pretty interesting. 
 
After looking at the church, we pre-ordered tickets to visit La Pedrera.  This building was built by Guadi (who also created Parc Guell).  It was an apartment building, but the architecture is so unique and stunning.  We bought the audio guide and learned a lot.  When you walk in, you´re not expecting the building to be circular, but it is.  The walls are painted multiple colors, bleeding into each other.  However, when you look up, you realize there is no ceiling.  It´s like a courtyard.  The walls near the top have been bleached white from the sun, and only the lower half of the building is still painted.  The first stop was the roof.  There you can see views of the city, including the Sagrada Familia and the W hotel.  There are many spires on the roof, and the walkway is curvy and full of steps.  The second floor visited was the attic.  The ceilings are rounded into the walls, and it is very dark inside, kind of like a cave, but not dark and damp.  This had different artifacts and information about the different projects Gaudi worked on.  The third and final stop was to see an apartment.  These apartments are huge!  Each had 3 bedrooms plus a servants room, office, living room, dining room, and two bathrooms.  The ceilings and door frames had different moldings on them.  The floor was also done specially.  The child´s room had a special green tile, and the floor in the dining room and living room was a special wood.  This was to show that the family was separate from the servant.  I highly recommend visiting the museum.  It was awesome to see the architecture.  However when you do buy the tickets, do some research online and buy them in association with other museums.  You will get a much better deal, and if you order online, you can skip the lines!
 
So far that is all we have done today.  It is now 5 pm, and after traveling/exploring for about 25 hours, we are ready for a little siesta.  We will be going to dinner in a bit, and then hopefully walking around after.  I would like to see La Pedrera lit up at night as well as Sagrada Familia. 
 
 

Thursday, September 20, 2012

I Dare You...

In high school I had a friend who loved to always be busy, and always have plans for the next few weeks.  Of course I enjoyed that as well.  I loved being able to fill in my planner, decorate the date if it was something special, and being able to tell people that I had to "double-check my schedule" to see if I was free.  At the age of 25, I am lucky if I remember to fill in my planner (luckily I have never forgotten to show up somewhere). I still enjoy filling in my planner, but now I don't decorate.  I just write down the event in the little calendar box, look back, and reassess how much "free" time, or me time, I have.   Honestly, everything that I have been doing recently, I absolutely love.  Seeing shows, going to dinner with friends, seeing college friends, playing kickball.  All that stuff is awesome, but what I'm beginning to realize is that the best times are the ones that are unexpected.

Lately I have been making last minute plans with friends, doing simple activities like going out to bars or just wandering the streets of NYC.  Those are the times that I have the most fun.   And it's not because of who I am with (although that always helps), but it's because it is unexpected.  When I make plans to see my friends from college, I know that we are going to have an amazing time, and we do.  But I love the unknown.  I think that's what life is all about: always trying new things, learning something new, discovering likes/dislikes on a daily basis.

The one question I hate being asked is, "what have you been up to lately?".  We are all guilty of asking it, but yet it's always out of our mouths within the first 5 minutes of seeing a friend.  I used to hate this question because I felt like nothing exciting was happening in my life.  A lot of my friends are at the point where they are getting married, buying houses, finding the job they love.  For a long time it felt like my life wasn't really going anywhere.  I was stuck.  I was in a profession that I really didn't like, and it was tinting how I saw everything, and limiting my excitement for fun plans.  However, now that I have given up on looking ahead, but focusing on the future, I still hate that question.  My reasoning is different now.  I dislike that question because I honestly can't remember what I have been up to lately.  I could give you the generic answer: working, going to dinner with friends, catching up on books that I've been wanting to read, playing kickball, enjoying the weather.  But come on!  That is so boring.

I want to be able to give people real answers.  And honestly?  I want to make you guys a little jealous (don't we all?).  I want to be able to brag a little bit that I did something awesomely cool, and had a fabulous time doing it.  Now we all know this might not work out too well since I don't like talking about myself too much, but I'm going to attempt it.  For the next 12 months, this will be something that I work on.  To add to my goal, I am going to start taking more pictures.  Every day that I do something fun/exciting/new/scary I am going to take a picture or pictures of it, and post it on Facebook.  I am sorry now for all the pictures that will be showing up on your newsfeed.  I don't post the pictures on Facebook for you (okay, maybe a little bit), I mostly do it so that I can remember what I've done.  Facebook has made it so easy now for remembering!  With being able to enter the location, who you were with, the date, it's basically a reference of your life.  Plus, I love looking back at old pictures, and remembering silly moments that I've had.

Before you read anymore, go to your page on Facebook and click on the year 2010, and tell me that you did not just smile or laugh?  When I click 2010, I see a picture of one of my best friends who now lives in Chicago.  She was home visiting for a few days, and I went into NYC with her and her dad and his girlfriend.  We had such a great time being silly.  I still laugh and miss her every time I see those pictures.  In a few years, we are all going to want these memories, and we are all not scrap-booking pros, nor do we have time to make photo albums.  Facebook/other internet sites is what we are going to have to help us remember.  So here is my dare for you: take at least one picture every day, and post it on Facebook.  It really doesn't have to be anything too elaborate.  It can be as simple as a nice sunset, or your dog, or even a new pair of shoes that you're absolutely in love with (okay, maybe only I take pictures of my shoes), but you get the point.  What are you going to remember in 2 months? 1 year?  5 years?  What are you going to want to show your future friends, husband/wife, or kids?

With that, let me leave you with a few words from Jason Mraz:


If this life is one act
Why do we lay all these traps?
We put them right in our path
When we just wanna be free

I will not waste my days
Making up all kinds of ways
To worry about all the things
That will not happen to me

So I just let go of what I know I don't know
And I know I'll only do this by
Living in the moment
Living our life
Easy and breezy
With peace in my mind
With peace in my heart
Peace in my soul
Wherever I'm going, I'm already home
Living in the moment

I'm letting myself off the hook for things I've done
I let my past go past
And now I'm having more fun
I'm letting go of the thoughts
That do not make me strong
And I believe this way can be the same for everyone

And if I fall asleep
I know you'll be the one who'll always remind me
To live in the moment
To live my life
Easy and breezy
With peace in my mind
With peace in my heart
Got peace in my soul
Wherever I'm going, I'm already home

I can't walk through life facing backwards
I have tried
I tried more than once to just make sure
And I was denied the future I'd been searching for
But I spun around and hurt no more
By living in the moment
Living my life
Easy and breezy
With peace in my mind
With peace in my heart
Got peace in my soul
Wherever I'm going, I'm already home

I'm living in the moment
I'm living my life
Just taking it easy
With peace in my mind
Got peace in my heart
Got peace in my soul
Oh, wherever I'm going, I'm already home

I'm living in the moment
I'm living my life
Oh, easy and breezy
With peace in my mind
Peace in my heart
Peace in my soul
Wherever I'm going, I'm already home
I'm living in the moment